I find that most of the places parents seek help just teach them and tell them to stay calm, learn and do more. They're supposed to muscle their way into gentleness and figure out a way to stop yelling. 

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This mainstream approach completely ignores the trauma stored in the bodies of adults parenting today from the very same parenting practices they're trying to get away from. 

 

I am on a mission to help every parent parenting today understand:  

 

We have stored stuck unprocessed emotions in our bodies that are being poked and prodded by our adult lives, and especially our beloved children. 

 

We have nervous systems that have been fried and neglected and overpowered and misunderstood. 

 

This culture carries the false belief that if we learn enough we can change our behavior, and we feel like we're the only ones crying ourselves to sleep at night feeling such shame and regret and loneliness and anger at what we didn't get and what we can't seem to give. 

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I want you to know there is nothing wrong with you, you are not alone, and there is a way through this. 

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I'm glad you're here. You're right on time. 

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This is where we heal the shitake in our bodies, where we become masters of our nervous systems, and where we understand we *can* finally receive the support and understanding and soothing that we always needed and crave. I'm gonna give it to you first, and then teach you how to give it to yourself, using the protective powers of the nervous system to harness your healing.